I was walking out to my car after church this Sunday when a lady asked me “Tilisa, are you having another baby?” Ugh! Now keep in mind the following Sunday we are having a baptism and first birthday party for my little guy. Yes a year has gone by since his birth and yes I am still hanging on to twenty pounds of what I like to call ‘new mommy fat’. I guess now after a year I can’t really refer to myself as a new mommy any more. I will have to refer to myself as a mom now and it is probably time to get rid of that fat – because now I need to look at it as… just fat.